You're fit, healthy, at a normal weight, with no loose skin and no large fat deposits. You don't need this surgery — and, frankly, you have so much more to lose from it going wrong.
The gap between the body you have and the body you want comes down to: (1) training that isn't built for targeted muscle growth and (2) eating and drinking that isn't set up for definition. Lipo fixes neither. Its best results depend on the exact discipline you'd need anyway, and doing it 7,000 miles from your support group and follow-up care adds a material layer of risk.
BodyRok is great! It kicks our asses! Fast-paced reformer intervals, light-to-moderate springs, high reps, big cardio — real benefits: core strength, endurance, control, calorie burn. But it's optimized for a different outcome than the one you seem to want.
Korea has world-class surgeons — that's not the issue. The issue is being an international patient:
Healthy-ass people are talked into "a little enhancement" all the time by an industry that profits either way.
Studies of cosmetic surgery patients show improved satisfaction with the operated area — but limited or no effect on self-esteem, and pre-existing dissatisfaction often persists. You've done cosmetic surgery on yourself already — and are arguably no closer to satisfaction than before, opting for increasingly risky and expensive procedures to "correct" how you look.
We want to ask: what is the surgery expected to deliver that time and training can't?
If you feel bad in your body because it feels weak or lethargic as you move through your day, that's your body communicating that it needs something — better fuel, better training, more rest — and it's great to listen to it. But if you feel bad in your body in a way that only triggers when you look in the mirror, that's all in your head. And as your friends, we need to have a chat about why you feel this way — to the point of surgical intervention — when you look objectively fit and healthy.
Cancel the appointment, book the DEXA, hire the coach, start a healthier eating plan. And if January comes and you still want it — we'll talk. It was easy for you to book this appointment 1 month out; it will be just as easy to book it again. You are allowed to delay your decision.
We intervene because we love you and we care about you — and this is one of those impulsive decisions that friends don't let friends make without having a chat about it over brunch first.